Creating child-friendly spaces in our parishes

By caring for our infants and children, we affirm the beauty of our shared humanity and invest in the future of our Church and society.

Nov 01, 2024


Dear Editor,
As a parent and the first educator of my children in the faith, my heart swells with joy each time I bring my little ones to Mass. Yet, I also carry a concern about the lack of basic facilities for infants and young children in our parishes.

I vividly recall the discomfort of changing my infant’s nappy on a cramped toilet seat, or worse, in the sweltering heat of the car. These experiences, though not universal, highlight a gap in our hospitality, particularly towards the youngest members of our faith community.

I know I am not alone in this sentiment. Many parents have shared similar stories, underscoring the need for dedicated nursing rooms and changing areas in our churches. Some parishes have taken commendable steps in this direction, and we celebrate their efforts. However, for many others, this remains an unmet need.

Our Catholic faith teaches us to cherish and protect the most vulnerable among us. As Pope Francis reminds us, “Children are a gift. They are not an inconvenience.” This reflects the essence of the Theology of the Body, which affirms the inherent dignity of every person, created in the image and likeness of God. Creating welcoming spaces for infants and their caregivers is not merely a matter of convenience; it is a tangible expression of our commitment to upholding the dignity of every human life, from conception to natural death.

Moreover, by prioritising the needs of families with young children, we foster an environment where faith can be nurtured and passed on from one generation to the next. Children, as gifts from God, invite us to live out our call to love in a profound way. Imagine a parish where parents feel supported, and children feel safe and loved. This is the kind of community that truly reflects the love of Christ.

I understand that resources may be limited, and not every parish can immediately build state-of-the-art facilities. However, I urge you to consider simple, cost-effective solutions, such as designating a quiet corner for nursing mothers or installing a changing table in a restroom. Even small changes can make a world of difference.

Additionally, as we create welcoming spaces, we must ensure these areas are safe for exploration. Wide railings and other hazards pose real risks to our little ones. Let us ensure that our parishes are places where children can explore and play without fear.

My dear fellow Catholics, let us rise to this challenge with open hearts and creative minds. Together, let us strive to create a nurturing environment where faith and love flourish, reflecting the heart of Christ. By caring for our infants and children, we affirm the beauty of our shared humanity and invest in the future of our Church and society.

May the Holy Family, who knew the joys and struggles of parenthood, guide and inspire us in this important endeavour.

Brian & Christina Lazaroo
via email

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