Reflecting on Lent as a family

Mar 07, 2025

By Fr Dr John Singarayar SVD
As we enter the sacred season of Lent, we are invited to embark on a pilgrimage — a journey of faith, sacrifice, and hope. This journey is not one we undertake alone; it is a shared endeavour, a family pilgrimage, where we walk together toward the light of Easter. Lent calls us to pause, reflect, and realign our hearts with God’s will, and it is in the context of family that this journey takes on its deepest meaning.

Family life, much like Lent, is a pilgrimage filled with both trials and triumphs. There are moments of joy and moments of struggle, times when the path feels clear and times when we wander in the desert. Yet, through it all, God is with us, guiding us, strengthening us, and reminding us of the hope that lies at the heart of our faith. As a family, we are called to support one another, to lift each other up, and to bear witness to the transformative power of God’s love.

One of the most beautiful aspects of Lent is its emphasis on intentionality. It is a time to examine our lives, to let go of what distracts us from God, and to make space for what truly matters. In our families, this might mean setting aside time for prayer, engaging in acts of service, or simply being present to one another in a deeper way. It is in these small, intentional acts that we create a culture of faith and hope within our homes.

Prayer, in particular, is a cornerstone of our Lenten journey. As a family, we are called to pray together, not just for our own needs but for the needs of the world. Whether it is through the Stations of the Cross, the Rosary, or quiet moments of reflection, prayer unites us as a family and draws us closer to God. It reminds us that we are not alone on this journey and that we have a loving Father who walks with us every step of the way.

Almsgiving is another important aspect of our Lenten pilgrimage. As a family, we are called to be generous, not just with our resources but with our time and talents. By involving our children in acts of charity, we teach them the value of giving and the importance of living in solidarity with those in need. These acts of love and service are not just expressions of our faith; they are expressions of hope — a hope that reminds us that we are all connected and that we have the power to make a difference in the lives of others. Sacrifice, too, plays a central role in our Lenten journey. By giving up something we cherish, we create space for God to work in our lives. But sacrifice is not just about what we give up; it is about what we gain — a deeper sense of purpose, a greater awareness of God’s presence, and a renewed commitment to living as disciples of Christ. As a family, we can support one another in these sacrifices, encouraging each other to persevere and reminding one another of the hope that lies ahead.

Finally, Lent is a season of hope. It reminds us that even in the darkest moments, there is always the promise of new life. As a family, we are called to be witnesses of this hope — to live in a way that reflects the joy and peace of the Gospel. By walking this Lenten journey together, we not only grow in faith but also become a beacon of hope for the world.

As we embark on this pilgrimage of hope, let us pray for the grace to be open to God’s transforming love. Let us support one another in prayer, sacrifice, and acts of charity. And let us never lose sight of the light that shines at the end of our journey — the light of Christ, who leads us to the joy of Easter.

May this Lenten season be a time of renewal and transformation for your family. May it deepen your love for God and for one another. And may it fill your hearts with the hope that comes from knowing that, no matter what challenges we face, we are never alone — for God is with us, now and always.